How Sexuality and Spirituality Connect

I have had thousands of conversations with men about their spirituality. A man’s spirituality is simply his experience of God. I have not had quite as many, but certainly hundreds of conversations with men about their sexuality. A man’s sexuality is simply his experience of himself as masculine and sexual. But as a spiritual director, […]

God’s Presence Shapes Us Into Men

This is the second in a series on God’s presence. The topic of masculinity has become a hot-button, cultural discussion. Differing definitions of manhood abound, as well as programs for how to become a man. But in all of these conversations, one thing is rarely, if ever mentioned. It is God’s presence that most surely […]

10 Signs You Are Moving from Boyhood to Manhood

What does it mean to be a man? And how does one become a man? These questions are being asked in a thousand different ways in our turbulent culture. The loss of centering for masculinity is at epic proportions. You can see it in the tragedies on the news, in the endless public discussions, but […]

The man I am most like

The man I am most like Posted on July 28, 2014 by Bill It is the man I am most like in so many ways: in facial appearance, in emotional make-up, in body build, in mannerisms, in genetics. And with this man, I had the most remarkable conversation last night. Of course, this is my father. […]